I offer realistic, personalised advice for intelligent people on dating and relationships. My coaching is based on scientific research.

Many people think that Dating Coaches are about trying to manipulate people or get them to act a part. They think they make unrealistic promises to revolutionise their love lives and turn them into super-confident, magnetically attractive people. People can be cynical about these kind of claims, which are often based on pop psychology and not rooted in evidence.

I’m not like that. I work with people to bring out the best in them on their dates and in their relationships. I give them skills so they’re not held back by nerves, low self-esteem, or getting tongue-tied. I help them get the conversation to a deeper level so they make a real connection with their date. I enable them to work out what they need in a relationship and how to find out quickly whether the other person can meet those needs. I tell them honestly what subtle things they’re doing that might put people off when they first meet. But I don’t try and turn them into a different person.

I also work in social psychology as a Research Coordinator in the Department of Experimental Psychology at Oxford University and use the latest research on the psychology of dating to inform my coaching. So you don’t have to waste time dating the wrong people, and you can learn about the psychological processes going on in the other person and in the dating world around you. Dating has changed so much in the 21st century and we need to be aware of what’s going on.

So have an open mind, read my blog, and book a consultation with me to improve your dating life in 2019!

Rachel New