Better dating in London

Rachel grew up in East London, and now lives in South East London. She has an honest, practical approach to providing you with realistic advice to improve your dating experiences and relationships, whatever your age. She currently has clients in their 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s from London and surrounding areas.

Read Rachel’s practical, realistic advice in her blog posts.

Read what her clients have said about her coaching here.

Rachel has a background in research in social psychology at the University of Oxford, is a qualified and experienced teacher of psychology, and is also trained in mindfulness, life coaching and counselling.

Rachel welcomes people from the LGBTQ+ community, all ages, all ethnic and cultural backgrounds, the neurodiverse including those with autism, and people with disabilities.

Dating coaching: Rachel uses scientific research to inform her advice so you don’t have to waste time with the wrong people, and so that you understand the psychological processes going on in the other person and in the world of 21st century dating world. Rachel offers workshops, coaching programmes and one to one consultations. Get in touch to find out more, or visit the events page.

Preparing for dating: Rachel also works with people to reflect on previous relationships and how you want to do things differently in the future. Get in touch for more information about Rachel’s eight week coaching programme or find out more on the events page.

Couples coaching: Rachel uses the evidence-based approach of The Gottman Institute to tweak ways of communicating, negotiating conflict, re-establishing an emotional connection and finding meaning and purpose in relationships. Rachel offers one to one consultations for couples. Find out more here.

Rachel’s approach to dating: Many people think that dating coaches are about trying to manipulate people or get them to act a part. Many coaches make unrealistic promises to revolutionise clients’ love lives and turn them into super-confident, magnetically attractive people. People can be cynical about these kind of claims, which are often based on pop psychology and not rooted in evidence. Rachel isn’t like that. She works with people to bring out the best in them on their dates and in their relationships. She gives them skills so they’re not held back by nerves, low self-esteem, or getting tongue-tied. She helps them get the conversation to a deeper level so they make a real connection with their date. Rachel enables them to work out what they need in a relationship and how to find out quickly whether the other person can meet those needs. She tells them honestly what subtle things they’re doing that might put people off when they first meet. But she doesn’t try and turn them into a different person. Read more about the experiences of Rachel’s clients here.

Buy Rachel’s dating workbook here.

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